queer activist, technologist, writer, hacker
"Burst down those closet doors once and for all, and stand up, and start to fight."
This is a page of resources I've put together to help educate folks on my queer and non-binary identity. If you're not sure what queer or non-binary mean, check out the definitions section before jumping to the resources. I plan to update this page as I am introduced to new videos, articles, books, and podcasts that I think could be helpful to people, so consider checking back here in the future.
These definitions, while used by many, are specific to my identity and my experience. Not everyone will agree with these. Please respect people's labels and definitions.
Queer is an umbrella term and identity that feels most comfortable to me because it acknowledges both whom I am attracted to, as well as my non-binary gender. It's expansive and not constraining. It communicates that I'm not part of the assumed modern societal default of being cisgender and heterosexual. While queer was once primarily used as a slur, it has been reclaimed by many in the LGBTQIAP+ community.
While many folks think of bisexual as being attracted to both men and women, I consider it being attracted to those of a similar gender as well as genders different from my own. Pansexual often is defined as being attracted to many or all genders. While I prefer the term queer for myself, I sometimes use bisexual or pansexual to help combat bisexual erasure.
Non-binary is both an umbrella term and a gender identity, and is considered to fall under the transgender umbrella. It can mean a lot of differrent things, including not exclusively male or female (the gender binary), not having a gender at all, or having a gender outside of the gender binary spectrum. Folks who identify as non-binary may or may not identify as transgender. I am neither a man nor a woman, so I am a non-binary person.
Trans and cis are Latin prefixes. If you are transgender, it means you do not identify with the gender you were assigned at birth. If you are cisgender, it means you do identify with the gender you were assigned at birth. Since I'm non-binary and do not identify with what I was assigned at birth, I consider myself transgender.
Pronouns are words used to refer to people, such as he/him/his, she/her/her, or they/them/their. Yes, singular they is a thing and has a long history in the English language. There are also neo pronouns. Personally, I use they/them/their.